Christmas celebration and the New Year in Nigeria is the single biggest celebration as its not only being celebrated by the whole nation. This season give a sense of love and bliss, cards and goodwill are exchanged, the streets are lit with all manner of LED lights, bright, colorful lights and the atmosphere filled with … Continue reading Five Places to be this Yuletide in Nigeria
Today, I'm sharing with you a quote by Frida Kahlo, famous Mexican painter who was born in 1907. This woman was obviously a force of nature, vibrant and larger than life, but also vulnerable and very human. She represents the pain every woman on earth is going through—physical and emotional. Know that not a lot … Continue reading If I Have to Say It by Frida Kahlo
"Dear Human, When sorrow builds a house inside your mind don’t let it shake you beyond what you can bear Sit somewhere and find out what the house is made of get to know where the furniture came from, find out why the windows are so fiercely open Read something uplifting that empathizes but doesn’t … Continue reading That Lamp Called Hope
I had always wanted to put what goes on in my mind to paper and possibly if I had an audience to share it with, the better. So I got me a name and opened up a site which was dormant for about year and a half. I had a traumatic and life changing experience … Continue reading My Liebster Award Nominations
I hate cheating/cheaters and this applies to people getting with, involved or attached to people who are already attached also. Now let me break it down because I know what’s coming, but I got ya'll! Before I start...this post refers to relationships that vowed to be monogamous not open relationships, not poly or friends … Continue reading Cheating in Relationships
This got me seriously thinking on the matter of cheating.
Have you ever noticed how men will go literally crazy if he even suspects his woman is seeing someone else? This man will shut all the way down on you and act like you committed murder or something! I know that as women we really go crazy too but its something different when a man does it. It seems like it take his whole soul out of him. A man can cheat on his woman time after time after time and he says oh it was a mistake or just something that happened then proceed to continue on with his day like nothing happened.
Ladies I want you all to know that a quiet man is a man who is hurt. As women we should all understand why though and if you don’t let me explain it to you. Most women who cheat is already cheating for a reason in the first…
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Why is it such an issue when people choose to express themselves differently than the status quo especially when it does not hurt anybody else? It really amazes me how women, especially, always have to take potshots at other women who do things differently than they do. Like women calling other females simple, basic and … Continue reading Why Judge People?
This is the full text of Caitlyn Siehl’s poetry. Excerpts of this poem been floating around everywhere on cyberspace and when I finally came across this, I had to share. Enjoy! Do not fall in love with people like me. People like me will love you so hard that you turn to stone, into … Continue reading Do not Fall in Love Caitlyn Siehl
I’m trying to understand this recent spate of Christian bashings disguised as intellectual discourse/write-ups on my Facebook timeline and other social media platforms from agnostics/atheists about the validity of being a Christian (must be something in the water or it’s a full moon out there). Christians have become easy and unfair target these days. People … Continue reading Religious Bashing
‘I honestly believe we’re so accustomed to delivering the strong Black woman speech to ourselves and everyone else that we lose our ability to connect to our humanness, and thus our frailty. We become afraid to admit that we are hurting and struggling because we fear that we will be seen as weak. And we … Continue reading Depression: Stigma in Black People?