Dear Woman

If a man describes y’all relationship as “friends” then just be his damn (excuse my French) friend.

Friendship doesn’t have to mean sexual intimacy. Friendship isn’t putting yourself on hold or reserve while you are trying to figure out what’s next for you guys or the way forward.


Talk on the phone, go to dinner, watch the game or movies with him but also go out on dates with other people who know they desire more than friendship with you. Truth is he’s doing the same thing. Keeping his options open.

Keep that relatioship with him as the label that he assigned it “friends”.

Don’t take yourself off the market for someone who has no intention of being anything with you other than as “friends”

I don’t want anyone having sex and thereby procreating and then coming out saying men are scum, men can’t be trusted. 😏😏😠😠 He told you what he wanted, you refused to hear him or even notice the handwriting on the wall.

Too many women out on this streets building dudes for the next woman while he’s damaging her for the next man. 😩😩

Why give him all the benefits of a boyfriend when he doesn’t want the title. πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ˜

Lord, make it make sense, pleaseπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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